How Tips Can Make Stress Easier to Handle.
Stress has been a big part of my life at different times, and I know how quickly it can take over. What I’ve learned is that the smallest tips often carry the deepest meaning. They’re not just quick fixes — they’re little ways to meet yourself in moments when you feel lost or overwhelmed.
The Automatic in Life
For me, breathing is the perfect example. It feel automatic; you don’t think about it. The same goes for keeping a routine. But when I started practicing breathing exercises, I realized there’s no such thing as truly automatic. By repeating them, I gave myself space to see what I usually ignore — and to accept it as normal. That simple awareness changed a lot for me.
Your Inner Conversation
When my head is too full, I sometimes create a mood board. I mix the good and the bad — words, pictures, scraps — and place them side by side. Seeing them in front of me sparks a kind of dialogue. I discover that I can be my own best conversation partner, instead of always looking outside for answers.
Your Moving Partner
Movement has become another teacher for me. Playing a song that touches me, stretching out the tension in my body, or walking in nature — these aren’t just activities, they’re ways to partner with myself. My body shows me what I need, if I let it.
Meeting Your Boundaries
And then there’s the part that isn’t always soft: saying no, turning off notifications, keeping boundaries. I used to resist this, but I’ve come to see it differently. Sometimes meeting myself means being direct, even fierce. Almost like being “a bitch” — but in the best, most self-respecting way possible.
Closing Reflection
So yes, tips matter when you’re stressed. But not because they fix everything. They matter because they help you meet yourself — in your breath, in your thoughts, in your movements, and in your limits. And every time you practice, stress feels just a little easier to carry.
Master Your Stress, Your Path to Lasting Resilience. A toolkit for Introvert vs. Extravert.
Tips for Introverts
- Breathing: inhale 4 seconds, hold 7 seconds and exhale 8 seconds. Rest 1 minute and repeat 3 times. This breathing technique helps to calm your nervous system and shift your focus inward. It’s a great way to quickly reduce feelings of being overwhelmed and bring you back to a state of calm.
- Writing: write everything down for 5 minutes, or a ‘Three Good Things’ list. Getting your thoughts on paper, whether it’s by journaling for five minutes or just listing three things that went well, helps you process emotions and gain perspective. It’s a powerful and quiet way to release stress.
- Walking: walk outside for 10 minutes, take a deep breath, touch a tree. Exercise+ fresh air= rest
- Turn of notifications and say no, This helps you set a clear boundary and gives you the space you need to recharge without constant interruptions.
Tips for Extraverts
- Stick to a Schedule: Having a routine gives you a sense of control and purpose, which reduces stress.
- Connect & Talk It Out: Don’t keep things bottled up. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and share your feelings with them. Their energy can be a great antidote to stress and helps you process your emotions effectively.
- Take Action: When you feel overwhelmed, channel that energy into a dance, play a song or a new project.
- Create a Moodboard: This is a great outlet for big emotions. Turn your feelings into a visual project to clear your mind.